So as you know we've been planning a wedding since Nov. 1st. We got a lot of the big things out of the way; venue, reception, etc. Then after the first surge of "beastly" planning, we kind of hit a lull. We didn't really get much done. However, in the past month or more we have picked it back up. We have been planning and planning and planning. We have booked a photographer (AWESOME by the way, Kenny Fey), we have planned our wedding party,tried on dresses-well not me but Cassie, we have sized, priced, and selected. We know where, who, when, how and all the little knickknacks in between. Were planning how the ceremony will play out, all the songs we'll use, the colors, the styles, and the prices. We've tried to be thrifty, swiftly, crafty, nifty, and all the other y words. We know who's doing what and whats happening when. WE GOT THIS...
BUT WHAT FOR?!?!
Why are we planning so much? Why are we focusing so much on this ONE day? Why, in America, is so much focus, time, money, and effort put into this ONE day? I feel like it should be opposite. All the planning, money, time, effort should be put into the MARRIAGE and the future. The wedding should be so easy to plan--dumb traditions! Why did America and past generations put so much focus on the wedding????? Maybe thats why 50% of every marriage fails....
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